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Jim Collins, the author of “Good to Great” and “Built to Last,” was speaking before a group of people, and in the last 10 minutes or so of his speech he addressed young emerging leaders. One of the ten things he advised young leaders to do was:

“If you woke tomorrow morning and discovered you inherited $20 million and had discovered you also had terminal disease with 10 years to live, what would be on your stop-doing list?”

The next point Mr. Collins made was “Start your stop-doing list.”

Stephen Covey had written in his book “7 Habits of Highly Successful People” to begin with the end in mind. You should reflect on what you would have people say about you at your funeral and begin to live out your day working toward becoming that person.

As I am reading through the book “Modern Buddhism: The Path of Compassion and Wisdom,” one of the meditations suggested focuses on death: “I may die today.” The fact is we all face death one day, but to assume we are given tomorrow leads us to a point of delaying the good we might otherwise do today. If I live with the knowledge that I may die today, the actions I take and the things I do would be far different than if I lived with the notion that I have tomorrow.

Christianity holds the same thought. In the book of James, it says,

Now listen, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will got to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.’ Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.”

It would seem that all these thoughts around death and the shortness of life would be discouraging. For some it would be. For those who grasp an understanding of our brevity of life on this earth, it motivates them to focus on what is truly important. We would express more gratitude, show more compassion, and live each day to its fullest.

Some might even say, “What’s the point of planning any long-term goals?”  It isn’t that we don’t plan for the future, it is that we live each day to achieve what we see ourselves becoming. If your goal is to be the CEO of a large corporation, you know that it takes daily actions to get there. You don’t put off reading that book one more day. If you goal is to be remembered as a loving spouse, you don’t put off those words of encouragement until tomorrow. If your goal is to be financially free at the age of 40, you don’t put off saving money now to buy that gadget that is the latest and greatest.

Normally, we would not associate death as being a motivator to LIVING life. Yet death’s ability to steal from us our potential for leaving a legacy is not a power I want to ignore. I choose to acknowledge my finite nature and LIVE today doing what will advance my goal of being the person I want to be remembered as.

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As I was reading through “The 7 Habit of Highly Effective Teens” by Sean Covey at Borders Bookstore this week, I was reminded of habit number 2.  Habit number 2 is “Begin with the End in Mind.” It was just what I needed for this week.

How many of us started this week with the end in mind?  I know many people always have the end in mind: the weekend!  They usually start the week by saying with a huge sigh, “Oh, man, it’s Monday.” By Wednesday, the count down begins to Friday.  The weekend is the time most people seem to be working towards. It is their week long focus.

Now this is not the end I had in mind when I recalled what Sean was sharing in his book (which are the same 7 habits in his dad’s book, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”). I am talking about the end of your life.  What is that you want people to remember you for?  What do you want said at your funeral?  For some people this may seem a bit morbid or hard to picture, but if you have the end in mind, it makes it easier to chose what to do today to get to that point.

People, not just leaders, who begin by thinking their life through to the end, will be much more effective and far more successful than those just living for the weekend.  So as this week comes to a close, take a look at what you have done over the last week.  Are you moving closer to your projected end? What needs to happen today to make sure you are becoming what you want the world to remember you for?

Let’s Finish Strong by keeping the End in mind!